Historical evolution made the Latin word vacillāre reach our language as vacilar. This verb can be used with different meanings according to the context.
Oscillation can be the act of hesitating, wavering or wavering. For example: “A striker should never hesitate if he is alone in front of the goalkeeper”, “When his mother asked him where he had gone after dinner, the young man started to hesitate”, “If you disrespect me again, I will don’t hesitate before hitting your face”. Hesitation, in this context, is a state of doubt or perplexity. Suppose that, in a test, a teacher asks a student what the capital of Nepal is. If the student answers “Kathmandu” immediately, they will respond without hesitation. On the other hand, if you start babbling and walking around before answering, you’re hesitating because you’re not sure what the correct answer is.
The verb to waver can refer to something that moves without pause or that is unstable, with little firmness: “After the detonation, the building hesitated for a few seconds before collapsing”, “I hope the wind slows down the window and stops swaying” , ” The car will wobble around corners, but don’t worry: if you drive carefully, you won’t have any problems. ” In the colloquial language of some countries, hesitating consists of mocking or deceiving someone: “I think the boy hesitated when he told me that the road was in good condition” , “When I see Ernesto, I will hesitate because of the photo that was published in the newspaper ” Regarding this last meaning that concerns us with the term we are dealing with, we can say that there are those who, as an instrument of flirtation, resort to vacillating the person they like. Of course, it is not an effective technique, as each individual prefers some things and not others, but in many cases it is often useful. Specifically, putting it into practice basically consists of drawing the other’s attention, but not “listening” to beautiful phrases, words of love or even praise, but quite the opposite. It consists of “annoying” him, in getting his attention without showing that he wants to flirt to avoid him becoming defensive and then, once he has managed to relax, he starts to develop the skills of seduction, but without falling into clichés. This hesitant flirting technique is considered a good option when trying to get people who are very emotionally successful and used to flirting. In addition, we must also highlight the fact that many people make mistakes in the wording of the term in question, as they confuse it with bacillary. However, they are different verbs. Thus, bacillary is one that refers to two aspects:
– On the one hand, in the field of Medicine and Biology, it refers to everything that has to do with bacilli.
-On the other hand, in the field of geology it is used to refer to what is identified by having a texture in thick fibers.