Existence is understood as life. The term generally refers to the activity performed by an organic being or, more precisely, to its ability to be born, develop, reproduce and die. Everyday is what you do every day.
The concept of everyday life, therefore, refers to the actions that a person performs on a day-to-day basis. Some are common to all individuals (waking up, eating, sleeping), while others depend on the reality of each subject. Take the case of a 10-year-old boy. Your daily life may include waking up, having breakfast with your parents, going to school, playing games with friends, watching TV, having dinner at home, and sleeping. If the routine varies, it will include situations that are not everyday: this is what will happen if, one day, the child has to go to the doctor because he has a stomachache. This activity (going to the doctor) is not daily for the little one.
For adults, daily life often includes work activities. For many people, therefore, daily life involves spending several hours in an office, a factory, etc. Philosophers and sociologists often argue that everyday life creates meaning and generates naturalness. In this way, everyday life is “safe” as it minimizes uncertainty. The daily life of many people who make up a community generates traditions and customs. This is why it is common for most people in a given country to have lunch at similar times and choose similar foods, for example. It should be noted that human beings are generally unaware of this phenomenon until we travel abroad, especially if we visit a country with customs very different from our own. Since activities like eating and sleeping are usually associated with certain times of day from the moment we are born, many people do not dare to question this relationship, but rather accept it as part of normality. When we leave the normal plane and face a reality different from ours, several things can happen: that we simply value it as another possibility within the range that encompasses the organization of human beings in society, but then we return to our own; that we try to adapt in order to start being part of it (something that happens when we move abroad); that we openly reject him and despise him.
Everyday life is as relative a concept as love, but at the same time it can become as rigid and indisputable as this one: we don’t hesitate to get up in the morning and have breakfast, go to work, come back for dinner and go to bed, or we don’t even ask ourselves if we should continue to love our loved ones every day; We do all this and more with apparent normality, but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t small cracks inside us, but that we often neglect them so as not to threaten our stability. When a person leaves the country because they are not satisfied with the quality of life, or when they have a disagreement with the family because they do not feel a true union with them, a very important rupture occurs, which few dare to experience. . Leaving everyday life behind is difficult, as every second of the new life reminds us that we are “newcomers”, beings who belong to another reality and who must strive to fit in and feel comfortable. However, despite the fact that everyday life seems to be the space where we feel safe, our true happiness is often at risk.